You’ve dated your fair share of women and have always enjoyed
keeping your options open; but lately, there’s this one woman that has
you wondering if she’s “the one.”
In order to help you figure this out, I have compiled the following list
of the top 10 ways to know you’re in love.
You’ve forgotten your ex
More often than not, a breakup is followed by a significant amount of
time spent thinking about her and wondering whether or not you guys
made the right decision in going your separate ways. Depending on
how long the two of you were together, these doubts can resurface
again and again.
Ever since you met her , however, the thought of getting back together
with your ex is the furthest thing from your mind. Come to think of it,
you barely recall what you found so great about your ex in the first
You can’t stop thinking about her
Instead, you are consumed by thoughts of her . She just pops into your
head for no apparent reason, and you wonder if she thinks of you half
as much as you think of her. You wonder what she’s up to and even
consider calling her (but refrain from doing so for fear of looking
If she’s the last thing on your mind before you go to sleep and the first
thing on your mind when you wake up — and you’ve even dreamed of
her on a couple of occasions — then you don’t really even need to read
on to know if you’re in love (but should anyway, just to be sure).
You care about her
There is a reason why you don’t really want to know too much about
the chick you had a one-night stand with: you don’t love her. When
you’re in love with a woman, you want to know all about her: who she
is, what she thinks, what makes her laugh. You truly care about her
and her feelings.
If you truly love a woman, you feel bad if she had a bad day or is
upset about something. You don’t try to cheer her up because you have
to , but because you can’t help it.
You find her quirks charming.
She does and says things that make her different, and you like it. You
can’t quite put your finger on why, but it doesn’t even matter. You like
her just the way she is.
You have great chemistry
You can’t be in love with someone that you have no chemistry with. If
you and her seem to always be on the same wavelength, and think in
similar ways, that’s a great sign. If you also generate enough heat to
set off a five-alarm fire bell, then she is probably someone that you
could fall in love with, if you aren’t there already.
You don’t notice other women as much
Although you can’t help noticing a beautiful woman when one walks
by, when you’re in love, some of them tend to slip under the radar,
while others just pale in comparison to her. Furthermore, you don’t
seem to be flirting half as much as you used to.
You are slowly realizing that she’s often the only woman in the room
that matters, and, for some reason, that suits you just fine.
You love spending time with her
This one is pretty obvious but important nonetheless. You look
forward to seeing her, and don’t care much about what the two of you
will be doing. Lately, just going for a walk with her sounds like the
best way you could possibly spend an evening.
Furthermore, when you’re not together, you miss her and wish you
You don’t mind compromising sometimes
There was a time when it was your way or the highway, but, with her
it’s different. Not that she asks you to, but you don’t mind missing a
night out with the guys to be with her. And you find yourself trying to
incorporate her into your plans or altering them to accomodate her.
Other priorities take a backseat
Your ever-important “to-do” list seems quite stagnant these days, as
being with her always manages to render your other plans and
You start thinking about the future and she’s in it
It used to be that the future with a woman meant your date on
Saturday night, but, with this woman, the future seems infinite. Not
only do you plan to see her this weekend, but you want to see her a
year from now as well.
She’s the one…
If you are currently dating a woman that makes you act in any of the
ways mentioned above, then you, my friend, are seriously falling for
her. It’s time to put away the little black book for a while and enjoy